... just the same way as SkinBase does: without exposing the internal LambdaChangeListenerHandler (c&p)

    protected final void registerChangeListener(ObservableValue<?> property, Consumer<ObservableValue<?>> consumer) {
...
    }

    protected final Consumer<ObservableValue<?>> unregisterChangeListeners(ObservableValue<?> property) {
...
}

This would improve and simplify custom and core header (both column and table) implementations